Think of every step she takes to get ready for you. Have you ever watched a woman prepare? I assure you, this is no small feat or easy task. I'm dead fucking serious. If you have never watched a woman put on her makeup, ask a friend if you can. You will never make a comment about a women's makeup or presentation for the rest of your life. The amount of respect you will now and forever have will never be greater for any other thing in your life than it is now. For her to go through all that effort just so you can face fuck her and destroy all that effort, all that work, all that pride she took in going above and beyond. You already invited her over. Why did she have to put all that makeup on? She didn't, did she? Nope, but it certainly made things way hotter didn't it? Show her how hot by staying.
Men are created equal, then some of them get dressed. When you leave your home, dress for the expectation. How many eyes do you want on you today? Personally, I want all on me, to be watched implies safety. If everyone is watching you, or there is an expectation you are being watched one of two things can happen. Anxiety and shutdown or annoyance. Or, you can literally act however you want. If all eyes are on you, you most likely entered a room that you have not entered before. This is your chance to turn strangers into friends or bystanders into admirers. You don't get to roll for initiative here, you need to take it. You have the first move. You made it when you got dressed.
Alakshmi is a Goddess not fond of lemons. But you damn well better believe she is going to be appear often. Not because of anything you did. Fate happens, unless you make lemonade first. Mischief is part of life. Whether you invite it in or someone else does, it does not manifest on its own. Fate can seemingly put you at a certain place at a certain time but mischief is caused. Make lemonade, be sweet, be kind, be honest, and be true. To be mischievous is to be cruel, and manipulative, and selfish. Don't be that. Be better. Take something bitter and make it sweet. Add your sugar to the world. In fact, pour some of it on me.
Sex appeal does not require a pair of fishnets or heels. It requires being. It requires understanding yourself. It requires understanding what one desires and wants. Not about what the other person wants, this is about what you want. Before you can even begin to remotely care about what someone else wants, you first need to fully understand what you want. You need to know and understand what makes you happy and what makes you sad. Do more happy, do less sad. Feel more happy, feel less sad. Life isn't as simple as this but happiness is. Your happiness is the center of your being. If you are happy, you are sexy. K.I.S.S. Keep it simple stupid. Stupid being an adjective here. Keep it simple and life can be simple. When you are happy, those around you will be. But, it doesn't mean you won't need to dress life up once in a while with a nice pair of Wolford's or Louies. Life is what you make it. Dress the part and invite in what comes. Be true and be sexy.
"May the odds be ever in your favor." - Suzanne Collins
Leather and lace. When donning the material, do you just want the look and feel of it or do you want to look and feel like it? Are you playing a role or role playing? Are you modeling or are you being? If you laugh after putting it on, shed your skin, you aren't ready. If you get wet after putting it on, listen to your body.
It doesn't have to be sexual to turn a woman on. Instead, put something else in her mouth. Something with spice, something with heat, something to get her salivating. Gotta hydrate, right? You want her thirsty. Not just from the food but for you. You took her to dinner when you could have just went on Tinder and gotten your cock sucked without the effort or expense. Yes women know it is that easy. That doesn't mean they need to feel that way. Satisfaction comes from effort. Effort is a turn on.